Why do women love crossdressers?

[Cozy Monica]

I've noticed that I absolutely LOVE it when men dress like women. I've also noticed that a lot of other women enjoy it too.

Why is it that we like it so much when men dress up in dresses, stockings, makeup, etc?

Is it our fantasy to have a life-sized barbie doll that's actually alive?

Is it that we find it sexy?

[Titmowse]

Everyone looks better with eyeliner.

My favorite time of the year when I lived in a gay neighborhood was Halloween. Big block party. I absolutely loved seeing men everywhere in their dresses and full beards.

Remember when Anthony Kiedis from Red Hot Chili Peppers used to wear a skirt? God, that was hot.

[sunfunbill]

Hhmmmm, why do I get the feeling this thread has something to do with me, lol! As you can imagine, I have been doing a lot of research on this. Everyone has a different take on it, there seems to be no "one" answer. Both men and women like looking at a guy all dolled up, unless he's a real hairy, bear type guy!

The types of guys and the reason they like to watch cross dressers may surprise you, but I think I'll just let you find out yourselves.

The female form has always been sexier to look at then the male form. Anyone looks better with a smooth, soft face and make-up to highlight their best features. Seeing a guy in girly clothes make a man seem less threatening, more fun and sure of himself, as he does not care what others think. He also seems more compassionate and thoughtful, which many women find VERY sexy!

My two lezzy friends say I am more fun to be around when I am Bilinda, and they find her sexy, even though they are very much lesbian, none of that "guy and girl" stuff. They actually look forward to filming her, as do I!!

One question for you Monica, even though you say you find looking at a man dressed as a woman sexy, would you join a paysite to see them? I assume not, because that is where men and women differ. You may think they look sexy, but I don't think you would want to see them in some type of hardcore porn, or am I wrong?

Anyway let's not start too many threads on this, there is no money to be made with cross dressers.

[SharkFace]

You are all strange glues... Particually you Bill

[Hammer]

I don't think I personally know any women that like cross dressers so maybe the title is an over generalization.

But, I would guess for the women that do like them that it might be for the same reason some men like trannies.

[Lana]

Women LOVE guy's like Bill for the exact reasons Bill just mentioned. Safe, sexy, confident. No he-man ego issues. They don't want them for a husband, definately don't want them for sex or protection ... they're just cute and fun.
So ... the nagging question remains. Who is Bills market? Women might love him but they aren't going to join his site. Gays, crossdressers I don't know, I hope so. Although you look beautiful babe I'm still trying to peg you into a niche. And a niche is crucial.

[sunfunbill]

Although you look beautiful babe I'm still trying to peg you into a niche. And a niche is crucial.

Why thank you Lana for your sweet words! As for my niche, don't worry, I've got that taken care of.

[Mr. Lovepants]

I think Bill will find his niche is a sub-niche within the tranny niche and I think if you interact with your members, Bill, you'll do ok.

Monica, there are some Ladyboys in Thailand that are so convincing it is scary. Because you don't notice them.

They are not cabaret performers or part of the sex industry. They are guys that just want to be girls. No glamour, no fuss and very little make-up. I only became aware of them because my photog is a connoisseur.

Now, every time I am at the supermarket or the mall, I have to look very hard indeed before I think to myself "Ooh I wouldn't mind giving her one"

[Cozy Monica]

Mr. Lovepants, I think it's awesome when they do pull it off. I've been at the mall and seen some that aren't doing so great and I just feel kind of sad because I know how hard they must be trying.

Bill, I personally wouldn't worry a tonne about attracting an audience as I know they will indeed come your way.

For example, look at Buck Angel. He is a man with a pussy. I bet a lot of people would think he couldn't possibly have an audience. Straight women wouldn't want him, he has a pussy. Gay men wouldn't want him, he has a pussy. Lesbian women wouldn't want him, he's a man. And so on, and yet all of those groups, and more, find him extremely attractive and really enjoy his porn.

[carol.prime]

well im not on that thing. maybe i just love wearing some loose clothes but that doesn't mean that i love to wear man clothes. and my bf didn't like to wear my dress huh!

[balls_deep]

bill you have a hell of a niche right now, and you are probably the most under marketed niche i see. creativity will be the key to you success. I'm not gay, but i can't wait to see what you come up with. I wish i had the gazoonga's you do, if i did i would definately give it a shot.

is it possible to be a shy porn promoter?

lots of luck bill,

[AdorableAudrey]

Crossdressers are fun because it's finally a guy that I can talk to about hairstyles, make-up, and shoe shopping. Plus, they love and appreciate women in a more relaxed way than vanilla/straight guys do.

Crossdressing and genderbending activities are hugely popular, they tell me about it over the phonesex lines but you'd have a tough time getting most of those guys to admit it in a regular conversation. :

[Hammer]

Originally posted by Cozy Monica
For example, look at Buck Angel. He is a man with a pussy.

Well... let's say she looks like a man and has a pussy because she's a she and not a he. It's not really that convincing when she talks or up close.

[mynameisjim]

Wasn't there a scene where Tgirl Gia Darling fucked Buck Angel?

[phuckbunny]

There was indeed. It was touted as the first male to female fucking a female to male in the history of porn or some other such insanity.

BTW I did not think that Buck was apparent as a woman when I met him.

[Titmowse]

Originally posted by Hammer
Well... let's say she looks like a man and has a pussy because she's a she and not a he. It's not really that convincing when she talks or up close.

Looks pretty manly to me:

[Hammer]

Originally posted by phuckbunny
BTW I did not think that Buck was apparent as a woman when I met him.

Because you're not a man.

The drugs and steroids that she's taking are going to kill her. It amazes me how far people will go to look like something they're not. Mutilating their bodies and using chemicals to alter their appearance. In a few years the side effects are going to become apparent and when the kidneys shut down I wonder if she'll think it was all worth it.

[sunfunbill]

It amazes me how far people will go to look like something they're not.

The only things I'm willing to do are growing out my nails, waxing my eyebrows, shaving my bod and getting a tan!

All the other stuff will be cosmetics, wigs, silicon boobies and my airbrush skills, thank god I can do airbrushing!!!!!

[Cozy Monica]

Originally posted by Hammer
Because you're not a man.

The drugs and steroids that she's taking are going to kill her. It amazes me how far people will go to look like something they're not. Mutilating their bodies and using chemicals to alter their appearance. In a few years the side effects are going to become apparent and when the kidneys shut down I wonder if she'll think it was all worth it.

Is he on steroids?

I know he takes testosterone, and that's not going to kill him as long as it's being monitored properly. He wouldn't have any more of it in his body than you do.

And why is it mutilation when a person chooses to change their sex, but not mutilation when they have procedures such as breast enhancement/reduction, wax jobs, dye jobs, botox, tummy tucks, lipo, a tan. I would even go so far as to say that drinking caffiene is right up there with using chemicals to alter one's body in a desired way.

When does using a chemical or altering one's body go from being acceptable to unacceptable?